Got this from the old Husband Discipline Egroup. Never located the source. It is so evil and inventive that one must marvel at the effort Governess’ and Nannies would go to in the pursuit of their duties. What really makes it evil is calm way that the author discusses the application of these methods today.
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Subject: [Husband_Discipline] An interesting and useful essay about chastity
I found this essay on net and it helps me to deal with one problem of my boyfriend.
I hope you will find it interesting and useful too.
Importance of chastity.
Let us now examine some of the punishments that were commonly applied in the Victorian and Edwardian households. Most of what follows is derived from information which was freely available at the time in the form of Instruction Manuals and articles published privately by training schools and issued to prospective Governess' and Nannies. There were variations depending on the original author but all followed similar guidelines and established similar routines and punishments for infractions of the rules.
Minor punishments for masturbation might be applied immediately upon discovery of the lapse. The guilty party receiving a few quick slaps across the palms of both hands with a ruler or leather school strap. Alternatively be might be placed over the Governess' knee for a quick but intense spanking.
This of course would be only a preliminary punishment prior to making arrangements for a more formal session of discipline which might include an imposition of lines to be completed prior to the boy presenting himself punctually and correctly dressed at the time designated by his Governess. Alternatively she might choose to have the youngster write out the assigned lines post-discipline, when the heat of the freshly applied stripes would sear the lines of education
into the freshly amenable mind of her chastened pupil.
Lines suggested included:
'I will not handle or fondle myself in any way, lest I end up in no good fashion.' or
'Self abuse is the root of all evil and leads to excessive drinking and other forms of self-wastage. I will not therefore engage in this disgusting habit.'
Punishments by means of restraints were commonly carried out, some items serving the dual purpose of discipline and in addition, preventing the miscreant from further handling his genitalia. Some examples include:
A wooden device which held the fingers and thumbs of both hands. Pressure on the fingers could be increased by tightening down the threaded screws which held the upper and lower part of the stocks together. The victim would be seated on a low wooden stool with his ankles bound to the front legs. The stocks would be placed on a table or desk before him and he could be left unsupervised for several hours to endure the increasing discomfort in hands, bottom and back
with no means of touching his offending parts.
This was a supervised punishment. The offender stripped of his trousers and nether garments would be made to kneel upright on a wooden stool with his hands on his head. His Governess would sit facing him holding a wooden ruler and a leather strap. If his member became erect she would beat it with the ruler until it subsided. If his hands left his head, or he began to wriggle, his bare backside was chastised with the strap while he held his position. This punishment, even for a short length of time was humiliating and harsh in the extreme.
Various compounds of wintergreen, peppers, mustard seed, etc. (see below for details) would be prepared and massaged into the genitalia. A custom-made glass vessel was placed over the penis and the neck of the bottle was pressed lightly against the victim's pubis. Air was evacuated from the bottle by means of a pump, causing the inflamed penis to swell and add further frustration and discomfort to the hapless offender. If he caused the seal to break before his Governess released him, he would earn further punishment. The need to maintain his position required enormous self-control, and was intensely humiliating, as it was carried out as a totally supervised punishment.
The Poultice Pouch:
This was usually made of soft leather with a drawer string top. The bag was filled with a similar compound to that described above (see below for details) and was then positioned to enclose the victim's penis and scrotum. He was then bound hand and foot, face up on his bed to helplessly suffer the burning agony inflicted on his sensitive flesh.
"After an hour the screams from the adjoining room subsided and the rattling of the iron bed gradually diminished. After a further 40 minutes, when I went to inspect, I found the bag was still in place and he had drifted mercifully into a troubled sleep, the cane that would visit his backside the following day, should he be tempted to remove the bag, was still held obediently in his right hand."
Horse Hair Drawers:
Designed to be worn at night to prevent further masturbation and to punish for the offence; the canvas drawers lined with horse hair fitted tightly around the groin and upper thighs. They inflicted intense irritation to the sensitive genitals during the night. The drawer string around the waist was tightened and sometimes the knot scaled with sealing wax to ensure that they could not be removed by the victim during the long restless night without detection.
Penalties for removal were severe.
The Bristle Box:
Constructed of thick cow-hide, the oblong box was made in two parts; upper and lower halves were hinged at one end, and at the other, a padded semi-circular opening allowed the box to enclose penis and testicles. When closed the padded opening fitted tightly around the base of the penis and scrotum. A strap and lock ensured it would remain in place and would deny any access for the purposes of masturbation. Both halves of the box were lined with 3/4" long Hog's bristle which caused immense torment.
Such devices when worn at night had the advantage of preserving any evidence of 'nightly emission' for which further punishment would be awarded. Morning 'Bed Inspections' were part of the Governess' duties and signs of emission were always concluded to be the result of masturbation when the victim had passed the night unrestrained. Restraints were imposed generally as an additional punishment for acts of masturbation as well as providing physical deterrence for any future offence.
The victim's wrists were fastened behind his back. Hands and arms were enclosed within a long narrow canvas bag which reached halfway up the upper part of his arms. Lacing along the length of the bag was tightened to bring the elbows together and tied securely. A harsh and severe form of restraint.
The Whipping Harness:
A thick leather pouch then enclosed the genitals and was fitted to a waist belt. A bevelled 'cup and crutch' strap an inch and a half wide ran from the bottom of the front pouch between his legs and was passed up between the cheeks of his bottom to be fastened to the back of the waist strap. The Governess would grasp the scrotum with one hand, the tip of the penis with the other and pull them back and under his legs before pulling on the crutch strap to secure it.
Care had to be taken not to tighten this strap too tightly as it exerted pressure on the genitals which could inflict severe pain. When used merely as a night restraint the wrists could be attached to cuffs attached to the broad leather waist strap which made masturbation impossible and would be sure to act as a further reminder that disobedience would not be tolerated.
As a whipping harness it provided protection for the genitals against accidental damage ... easily inflicted when wielding a substantial whippy birch. Moreover when the victim was strapped over a block his legs could be spread and the sensitive inner thighs whipped without the possibility of inflicting damage to his genitals. The broad crutch strap parted the cheeks of his buttocks exposing fresh and sensitive areas of flesh for the attention of birch, whip or cane.
This attention to detail and preoccupation with inflicting pain is prevalent in all the factual descriptions of discipline.
Corporal punishment was administered in the same efficient and orderly way that was accorded to the running of the Victorian household and in later life the young gentlemen who had experienced this efficiency at first hand were to apply the same principals to run the British Empire. Order and Discipline, the key-note of the Victorian era.
In the more spacious and well organised residences, rooms were often set aside and furnished specifically as Punishment Rooms. Governess' were instructed: "The Governess will ensure that she has acquired a proper set of furnishings and implements such that her punishments may be appropriately meted out, ideally an Eton Bench should be available...."
Essential implements suggested in the manual are: "a wooden hairbrush, slippers, tawse, tapette, switch, cane, birch, riding crop, martinet."
Records of all punishments were considered essential and... 'meticulous details regarding each punishment are advised in order to aid review of the success of each directive and to ensure subsequent punishments for the same offence shall be ever more severe.' ... Victims were always required to read and sign each entry after punishment.
Corporal punishments were formal and ritualistic. The good Governess was quick to appreciate the benefit of the torment and anxiety that could be generated by extending the time he had to anticipate each punishment. Written notes were recommended to announce his impending punishment and an example is given:
'The punishment note should be contained within a sealed envelope for his trembling fingers to open. It should not be handed to him in person but rather, left in a conspicuous spot for him to chance upon and shiver as he sees his time writ large and bold upon it...'
It might read...
I request your attendance in my study at precisely six pm tomorrow. You will enter the study, go to the cupboard and take down the cane which I have selected for your punishment and to which I have attached a red ribbon.
You will place the cane on the top of the whipping block and stand before it after first lowering and removing your trousers and undergarments which will be folded and placed neatly in the comer of the room.
You will remove the ribbon from the cane and tie it tightly around the organ that produced the offensive emission..
You will place your hands on your head and await my arrival. Do not increase the severity of your punishment by fidgeting while you wait or by failing to carry out these instructions correctly... the punishment I intend to give you will be harsh enough.'
Two other punishments were commonly used:
The application of an Enema, whilst humiliating and sometimes painful for the self-abuser had absolutely no medical benefit and has to he regarded as punitive rather than a possible cure or sensible deterrent. Much the same can be said for the widespread and liberal dosing of masturbators with Cod Liver Oil.
The flagellation implements of the Victorian era are still widely available and still provide extremely effective punishments. We also now enjoy a wide range of modern restraints and chastity devices. Potions and lotions are now available in tubes.... more convenient and just as effective! Piercings identical to those applied to the Roman slaves are still inflicted on the unfortunate male's genitalia
to deter self abuse and control erections.
Teasing and tormenting the offending male's penis and testicles, binding with rope, humiliation, clipping and whipping of the genitals are all effective at arousing the male to the point where an erection becomes a painful and undesirable attribute and the need to masturbate dissolves. His penis is owned and controlled solely by his Wife or Mistress and his own desires are permanently subdued.
In looking to recreate the remedies developed by our Victorian forebears to deter their youth from self-abuse and relieve the 'morning tensions', as it was so delicately put by one contemporary Governess, detailed literature searches reveal countless descriptions of genital torment and punishment by 'rubefactions', but most are 'broad-brush' with little detail of how exactly they were prepared and administered.
However a few of these tried and trusted remedies have been passed down through the ages and I am pleased to draw them to the attention of modern Ladies needing to keep their naughty males in line.
Bran and Mustard Poultice.
1 Tablespoon of Salt
1 Tablespoon of Flour of Mustard
Take a piece of soft flannel and soak it in boiling water, remove, wring out and sprinkle one side with plenty of Flour of Mustard, the more the better. This should be done while placed on a hot plate so that no heat may be lost. Then place a fine piece of muslin or gauze on top and keep the whole warm.
Place the Bran upon the top of a pan of boiling water and when the heat has penetrated the bran, stir gently in together with the Salt. Pour off the surplus water, spread the Bran thickly on a piece of old linen or calico.
The poultice should be made larger than is necessary, let it be from 1/2" to 1" thick. Do not pat it down into a hard pudding. Have the cloth on which it is spread large enough to fold all round and double up so that the Bran may not ooze out.
Have everything ready. Restrain the naked boy by wrists and ankles so that he lies inert, thighs spread, face upwards on a bare mattress covered with an old flannel sheet. If possible the bed-frame should be positioned in a room adjoining or adjacent to the Governess' or Nanny's room.
Suitable gloves should be worn to apply the poultice and protect the hands. Stretch the penis forward with one hand, (if it is erect so much the better), extend the scrotal sac and contents along the penis shaft with the other then wrap a bandage, (a single layer of thin gauze) around the appendage ready for the application of the Mustard flannel.
Now quickly apply the Mustard flannel, wrapping the entire genital area with the flannel.
The Bran Poultice is then applied as soon as possible on top. It should be as hot as it can be borne. Now cover the whole organ with oil-silk or rubber sheeting, keeping it firmly fastened to the place intended. The purpose of the Bran Poultice is defeated if it becomes a stiff cold paste or if it is allowed to slip about in an unsteady fashion. The Bran Poultice will heat the Mustard Poultice so it imparts its burning heat to the recalcitrant organ. It will also maintain the effects for a lengthy period.
If you click the following photo you will can see an complete photo essay detailing the application of a bran and mustard poultice!
A properly applied Bran and Mustard Poultice is excruciatingly painful as evidenced by the screams and writhings of the tortured youth. The pain is intense, particularly on the scrotum which is far more sensitive to heat than my penis itself. Application of the Bran Poultice will produce an overwhelming increase in the intensity of pain which is scarcely bearable or remarkable duration. The following day one can expect to find the offenders genitals, and particularly the scrotum are bright red and very sore. Some individuals may find that the skin goes on to blister and it may take up to two weeks to recover.
The Chilli Cap
1 large Red Extra Hot Chilli Pepper, approximate size 5" long, 1½" in diameter.
Cut off the top and the stalk. Using a thin blade remove most of the inner core and seeds from the pod. These are the hottest and therefore the most irritating part of the Chilli.
By a process of trial and error you will be able to regulate the degree of discomfort applied as you see fit. Frequent and persistent self abuse will attract a pod containing more seeds and flesh to instantly curb the most recalcitrant boy.
Restrain the boy's wrists and ankles to the bed rails. Wear gloves and ensure no contact to the eyes is made by the Chilli juice. Grasp the penis shaft well below the frenum and gently cover the penis head with the pod twisting it and squeezing at the same time.
The speed at which the pain strikes with this formula is amazing, the lightest touch of the pod produces intense burning almost immediately. The pain burns persistently and intensely, barely tolerable, as a solid continuous burning. For serious offenders some of the juice may be applied to the shaft and scrotum with excruciating results. This is a most severe remedy if the right chilli pepper is located with lots of seeds. The penis will swell nicely and burn for well over an hour.
1 Large Red Pepper
2 Green Peppers
2 White Peppers
2 Yellow Peppers
The seed and cores from 2 large extra-hot Chillies
Oil of turpentine.
Take each of the Peppers and remove the top and stalk and discard. Scoop out the inner core and seeds and leave to thoroughly dry. Do the same with Chillies.
When thoroughly dry place in mortar and grind all to a fine powder with a pestle, sieving through a fine mesh.
Melt the oils together in a bowl over hot water taking 1½ teaspoons of beeswax, 1 teaspoon of Hogs Lard and 5 teaspoons of Oil of Turpentine. Then warm the Pepper powder and melt into it 1/4 teaspoon of Borax.
Add this to the oils and beat together until the mixture is cold enough to transfer to pots. Try to find a pot of sufficient diameter to allow the penis head to enter freely, one with a neck diameter of 2" and 2" depth is ideal and will comfortably hold the product of the measured ingredients described above.
This lotion may be stored in a cool and secure place in well sealed pots ready for use. They should be clearly labeled as 'Caustic' to ensure that harmful results do not occur as the result of accidental misuse. Large quantities are not necessary as only a little need be applied to achieve maximum effect. It is well to note that this is an economical preparation as use is made only of the parts of the Pepper normally disposed of as too hot to use for normal cooking.
Care should be used when handling this very fiery lotion. It will be necessary to immobilize the miscreant's hands and preferably his ankles as well. His clothing will be as you prefer provided that unrestricted access is allowed to his genitals.
With one hand, firmly grasp the penis shaft and agitate it until blood flows freely to enlarge the head to full proportions. Then anoint the whole by gently twisting and pushing the offending member into the lotion, expect to hear cries of distress when the heating takes hold, but ignore them as they will eventually diminish as the fire subsides. This is a severe measure for repeat offenders and the male must expect it to be unpleasant and disturbing. Excellent results have been obtained with this astringent lotion. A cotton ball may be used to rub the lotion on the remainder of the shaft for further encouragement of good behaviour.
This may also be rubbed onto the penis or used in the pouch mentioned earlier.
After about one minute the worst pain begins, it is fairly severe becoming very severe after about 4-5 minutes. When at its peak it will fire intense waves of throbbing heat and burning through the naughty member. Though not as severe as a good Chili Cap it may be intensified by rubbing harder.
I got so carried away with My chat to you earlier I forgot to tell you about a poultice that I found in one of my medical journals that you might like to try :
This particular recipe was from an old book called THE NURSES DICTIONARY - By Honnor Morten which was written in 1943!! (The book has some wonderful old-fashioned remedies; Cod Liver Oil, Castor Oil, balms and ointments.
Kaolin Boracic acid Thymol Methyl Salicylate Peppermint Oil Glycerin
Melt the oils together in a bowl. Mix together to form a thick paste.
This paste may be stored in a cool and secure place in well sealed pots ready for use. They should be clearly labeled to avoid accidental misuse.
This is heated and spread on lint, 1/4 inch thick, applied and covered with wool. It can be left on for 24 hours.
Again it is advisable to immobilize the miscreant's hands and preferably his ankles as well. His clothing will be as you prefer provided that unrestricted access is allowed to his genitals. I have not used this preparation - yet, but it does look most interesting.
This may also be rubbed onto the penis or used in the pouch mentioned earlier.
One would expect it to take a few minutes for the pain develop becoming very severe after about 5 minutes. When at its peak it should provide waves of intense burning heat. It may be intensified by rubbing harder.
This one of My favourite treatments, since it is open to a great deal of formality and ritual. This prolongs the anticipation and fear of the punishment ahead and enhances the effects. In the USA and most of Europe wild nettles are abundant and freely available.......
I think the following extract from a Victorian Ladies Diary most adequately captures the concept of nettling.
This is one of my favourite treatments, since it is open to a great deal of formality and ritual. This prolongs the anticipation and fear of the punishment ahead and enhances the effects. In the USA and most of Europe wild nettles are abundant and freely available.
Their versatility is legendary as an instrument of punishment and as an effective deterrent to the deplorable habit of self-abuse by young Gentlemen. Their persuasive manner may first be employed as a simple 'switching' with a stout nettle on hands or naked genitals. Should this have no lasting effect then there are many more severe treatments that can be employed.
Let me describe to you the application of what I would describe as the ultimate sanction for the young Gentleman who would appear to be totally incorrigible.
After Breakfast the male should be given a large garden basket and invited to join you for a leisurely stroll in nearby fields or woods where wild stinging nettles are known to grow. He will quickly realise that his disgusting act has been discovered and that he is to be 'nettled', thus his torment begins as he cuts and gathers the plants for his own demise. Supervise him to make sure he selects fresh, strongly growing nettles. Let him use gloves at this stage.
The Small Nettle or Burning Nettle (Urtica urens) is a native of Europe that has spread widely as a weed elsewhere in the world (including N America), especially on warm, sandy soils. It is a much smaller plant but packs a far greater punch, probably because it has a denser covering of the stinging hairs. It may also be cultivated for year round use! Certainly it is worth going to the trouble of finding this species, as did the good Governesses of the Victorian era who were most concerned about the moral well-being of their charges.
Since the nettles are being collected for their stinging properties, make sure you check he only collects those that have a sufficiency of stinging hairs. These are the long, bristle-like hairs, which should stand out clearly from the shorter, softer, non-stinging hairs. Plants with well-developed purple pigment in the stems (a response to higher light levels) tend to have more stinging hairs than those plants which remain green.
Nettles are best selected in spring when their stinging properties are most fiery. Make sure he does not bruise or damage the leaves as this will reduce their effectiveness. Keep them in a vase of water so they remain fresh.
The remainder of the day he should spend either performing menial chores or writing lines.
Then, at the end of the day, instruct him to strip the nettle leaves from their stalks using his bare hands and pack the leaves into two sailcloth 'Mittens' and two other small calico bags, all equipped with drawstrings around their tops.
After Dinner, invite him to join you in the punishment room and deliver a thorough thrashing on both his hands and his bare buttocks using a Lochgelly tawse, before ordering him to stand in the corner of the room, hands on head. Visit him occasionally to deliver reminders of his obnoxious habits using one of your longest and whippiest canes. Leave him for at least thirty minutes before
ordering him to fetch the bags of nettles and the remaining leaves and bring them to his bedroom.
Have him strip the bed completely and place an old flannel sheet upon the bedstead. Supervise him closely and apply the cane as necessary. By this time he will be trembling uncontrollably as you now start to lay the surplus nettles on the centre of the flannel sheet. Gently and calmly motion him to lie face up, upon the bed. It will be with great trepidation that he lies atop the carefully laid out nettles. Make sure they were placed with the underside of the leaf pointing
upwards. Now fasten his wrists and ankles to the bed frame. He will already be wriggling and gasping as the nettles rekindle the fire in his buttocks.
Now tie him securely to the bed frame.
(For serious offenders I might suggest a sound spanking of the penis at this stage before we commence the nettling. Either a ruler or a small, but very stiff leather strap, are most suitable. The strap should be about one inch wide and up to a quarter of an inch thick. Layer the entire shaft with a copious number of strokes from tip to base, and on all sides, with a strong focus on the sensitive knob. I would not stop until at least a hundred strokes have been administered.)
With thick gloved hands, leather gardening gloves are ideal, to protect you from the nettles, place your finger and thumb firmly on his pubis and with firm strokes to the penis shaft from the other bring him to full erection. He may gasp in excitement and struggle to push his pelvis forward and up to meet your tantalising fingers but there is to be no release - only pain will follow and he must know it. His legs will tremble as he wriggles on his seat of torment.
Using two of the thicker stalks as a simple splint for his penis, bind them in place with butcher's string thus ensuring that the nettles will have the whole shaft to work upon. The mitts are placed on his hands and he will start to flail them about as the stinging begins.
Next the penis bag is put in place and secured firmly to the base of his twitching member by the draw string. The squeals and pleas for clemency will begin but must go totally unheeded.... he WILL learn!
The final bag encloses his tight, pretty hair-free testicles. Smile at him and kiss him goodnight on the forehead, making sure you totally ignore his pleading, tear-filled eyes. Leave the room as his cries start to echo around the room and move to the far end of the house so as not to be disturbed by his agonised shrieks.
For repeat offenders one can insert a furled leaf into the urethra, making sure it is furled with the hairs on the leaf's underside outwards. Or you might even form a gauze tube stuffed with leaves to be inserted into his anus! This is exceptionally severe!
This treatment lasts by far the longest period of time! Prickling and sharp stinging begin almost immediately, and will continue at a fairly even intensity for almost four hours.
Yes he MUST learn .... no more unnatural acts!
Nowadays, in addition to these old and trusted remedies we have a wide range of pre-prepared balms and salves. The most severe of these is probably the Ralgex Stick.
This is available in the United Kingdom. Unfortunately it is not available in the United States and you may have to settle for lesser alternatives such as Ben-Gay, Icy-Hot or Deep Heet Liquid. I found it well worth the effort to obtain a Ralgex Stick for David. It is definitely a severe deterrent. Far worse than the Ralgex Ointment.
It looks rather like a deodorant stick. This makes it ideal as a travelling companion as it easily slips into My hand bag. Better still, a few little smears around the exposed glans are all it takes to develop paroxysms of pain in the offending male. The perfect antidote to David fondling his naughty William. It a pleasure to provide such pain (for him) and amusement (to Me) with such minor physical activity.
Of course I can gain even greater effects by pressing harder as I swirl the foul smelling stick up and down his penis, around and around the knob, up and down, up and down and all around the shaft. It will take a few minutes for the pain to build up during which time I can watch with amusement as his face initially relaxes as he feels there may be no pain. Then it slowly contorts as the pain slowly waxes forth until after eight minutes or so he is writhing and screaming, much to My delight, in agony.
Restraint is to be advised. A good modern aid for this is plastic wrap. Round and around I build-up layer after layer around his torso with his arms secured against his chest. Then I leave him to writhe on the floor, totally unable to free himself from his bonds as the Ralgex burns angrily through his William for an hour or so.
For a more complete punishment session, after shaving William to open the pores of the skin, which makes any further punishment more effective, I apply a stringent smacking all over William, from root to head, especially the head, until red raw.
Now, before applying Mr Ralgex to William, I might melt the end of the stick over a candle or cigarette lighter. This trick was advised to Me by Naughty Paul's Mistress . This makes the salve a lot thicker and stickier when applied and you get a much thicker application which lasts much, much longer. If applied right the burning sensation can last over 24 hours. When this has been suitably applied to My satisfaction, I find it a good idea to also wrap William up in a bandage or plastic wrap to keep the heat in. I might also slip a pair of rubber pants on naughty David. After 24 hours of this he will not want to touch his William for a long, long time.
A second punishment that I find of interest is to put the male into nappies and diapers for a long period. Mistress Jane advises Me to ensure that for the previous 24 hours or longer the nappy has been soaked in starch so it is as stiff as a board. This can be very effective against a well spanked and sore backside and William.
Or just as nasty, She advises to ensure the whole of the starched nappy is covered in stinging nettles to cover his backside and William before pinning up and applying rubber pants. This She again assures causes extreme, long term pain and discomfort for very little effort on the Lady's part.
Available around the world this is a quick and easy alternative to the traditional pepper and chilli potions. Simply secure the culprit and apply a liberal dose of the Tabasco Sauce onto a piece of cotton wool. This may be applied roughly and liberally to the naughty organ. Several coats may be applied. It takes just a couple of minutes before the male is screaming for release. Indeed a gag my be required to quieten him down. Greater intensity of pain can be obtained by
squeezing his little William at the end to open up the urethra. Then drop a few drops (use an eyedropper) of the sauce into the opening. One has to be very careful with this procedure though and I do not recommend it. This will burn and irritate intensely for many hours.
A lovely tonic to rub into a well scratched or spanked William. A further tip from Naughty Paulie's Mistress.
I read of this some time ago. The lemon juice is squirted down his urethra. Or apply it to gauze and then thread the gauze down his opening. Squeeze William to empty out the juice where it will burn and smart intolerably. Again one would have to be very careful with this procedure.
Extended chastity is usually considered an essential measure in disciplining males and in character building. This is one area where we now have a far wider range of implements than ever existed in the past.
A wonderful device for both curbing masturbation and lustful thoughts was a little bracelet patented in 1906.
The US Patent 826,377 lodged on 17 July
1906 in Atlanta Georgia by Raphael A. Sonn advised:
"The object of the invention is in a simple yet thoroughly effective and positive manner, without interference with the functions of nature or under normal conditions causing discomfort or pain, to prevent and cure the habit of self-abuse in males. Once positioned, it will be impossible to remove the appliance without great physical pain and possible mutilation. If removed it cannot be replaced
without the key, so that detection will be inevitable."
A modern version of this wonderful device has now been created by the Power Exchange. this device is known as a Kali's Teeth Bracelet (KTB).
This device is locked in place where it is virtually impossible to remove without the key. If the male starts to erect then the razor sharp teeth bite home and he soon screws his face up in agony until he can rid his mind of the lustful thoughts and his erection subsides!
A good site for reviewing the wide range of chastity belts available can be found at lockmeup.com. Here you can be directed to a range of sites selling chastity devices. Better still you can check out the reviews provided by other readers on the effectiveness, quality and buying experiences they have observed.
A particularly useful belt, if your male has to fly regularly is the CB2000. This is made of highly durable polycarbonate and has no metal parts. It is therefore not detected by airport security systems.
A male kept in chastity will require milking periodically in order to avoid wet dreams and any possible health effects created by a build-up of sperm. There is no requirement for the male to enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm.
As one lady observed "The purpose of his William he must learn is for urination only. If it, or he, misbehave then it will also be the focus of a great deal of pain. He can service a Lady more than adequately without using his William. After all his focus in life is to be one of service to Ladies, not of self gratification!"
It is quite possible to milk a male of his semen while totally denying him an orgasm or any sexual pleasure. Indeed the process may be recommended as it further adds to his frustration. The distraught look on My husband's face when he has discharged without pleasure, knowing he is back into chastity for a protracted period afterwards is a joy to behold. Perhaps only equaled by the look on his face when he realises that he now has to consume the ejaculate, so as to not
waste the protein!
There are two techniques to be considered.
The first technique is best used only by Ladies with medical training. It is referred to as prostate massage. It actually involves the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, and the ampulla, which is the reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation.
The prostate gland is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It is accessed via the rectum, where it can be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum. The best way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump.
Just in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the fluid of the ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal vesicles are the ampulla.
The seminal vesicles, ampulla and prostate can be emptied by massaging them. The middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together are used. The Lady must wear sterile surgical gloves and ensure they have been well lubricated. Firm, slow massage over the glands will empty the prostate without creating an orgasm. Ladies you may be delighted to see that in some instances the organ does not necessarily erect for ejaculation to occur! The look on the male's face is priceless when that occurs. He does not even get to enjoy the
pleasure of an erection!
To limit any possibility of an orgasm and to ensure that there is not even the pleasurable sensation of fluid passing through the ejaculatory ducts and urethra, a plastic bag full of crushed ice around may be packed around the penis and testicles. It is left for ten minutes before commencing the massage. Only when the milking is completed are the bags removed.
I would imagine the male requires securing for this process as it is very hard to get a male to stay still when his genitals are being frozen! Naturally the male will not be at all pleased to be denied even the small amount of pleasure of the fluid passing through his numbed ejaculatory ducts! But I guess it is not his pleasure we are concerned with.
A condom or spirit glass can be used to collect the ejaculate. At this point it is advised that the prostate massage is ended and the ejaculate fed to the male.
While the prostate massage itself may be pleasurable, most men are unable to orgasm by the process.
An easier method that I use and prefer is to milk the penis whilst minimising stimulation. For this process I take My husband to an area where there is no erotic stimulation. I tend to favour our old diesel shed which is run down and rather unkempt. I then don a pair of ugly rubber gloves and roughly rub the penis whilst standing behind him. Just at the point of ejaculation, (and one has to watch closely) I cease the stimulation.
The ejaculate will then slowly dribble from his organ. He describes the feeling as rather like urinating. It is exceptionally frustrating for him to be brought so close to the edge, to watch the ejaculate ooze forth but experience no pleasurable sensations.
The look of confusion on his face when he realises it is over without any pleasurable sensation is heart warming, to Me! Of course his predicament is heightened as I usually catch the sperm and make him drink it down. I have a bucket of cold water with Me and he is immediately washed afterwards.
The whole procedure is carried out in a very perfunctory and work-like fashion. It is a quick procedure and there is no build up to the occasion. Quite simply he may be working on his chores when I announce "Up to the diesel shed." We hurry over to the shed.
"Lower your shorts" I order. I quickly grasp his erect organ, jerk him off and catch the dribbles. "Right, pull your shorts up! Now clean yourself, drink up your mess and get back to work," he is brusquely advised. The chore is finished! the whole episode, including the walk up to the dirty old diesel shed has taken less than five minutes! The look of frustration on his face gives Me such immense pleasure!
This procedure is also very useful if performed shortly before a scheduled thrashing.
In this instance the initial procedure is as above. However, about ten minutes after the 'event' the miscreant is escorted to the punishment room, stripped and secured for his thrashing. Believe Me, after a milking, his frustration is quite palpable. As a consequence the impact of the chosen implement is heightened considerably. His nerves are raw and tender and he suffers a far greater degree of pain. Since punishments are not meant to be a pleasurable affair I highly recommend that, if a severe thrashing is due and you are approaching a scheduled milking, you reserve the punishment until just after the milking. I promise you the results are well worthwhile.
With regular milking, a male may be deprived of orgasmic release for long periods. A milking every six to twelve weeks is perhaps quite sufficient.
A particularly effective way of increasing an orgasm deprived male's sense of sexual frustration between millings is to caress him to just short of orgasm, then punish his William. This will serve to remind him of just who is in charge and the fact that his naughty William put him in this predicament.
There is nothing that controls a man better than a blistered bottom.
Anatomy and Physical Function
No matter what motivations or desired outcomes brings people to this practice, the basic facts of the male physiology don’t change.
The technique of prostate massage and milking directly involves three organs of the male reproductive system, shown in the figure and color coded: the prostate gland (green), the seminal vesicles (blue), and Cowper’s (bulbourethral) gland (red).
In normal function, the testes (11) produce sperm on a more or less steady basis. It takes 74 days for them to mature to a point where they could be useful in reproduction. They are stored in the epididymis (8) while they mature. If not used after maturity they are absorbed back into the body. Contrary to popular belief they are not constantly building up with no place to go if there is no ejaculation or other discharge. Although there are tens of millions of sperm in a typical ejaculate, they do not constitute the majority of the volume.
During sexual arousal there is blood engorgement of the penis, scrotal area and the prostate, all of which may be noticed in varying degrees based on the level of arousal. During this arousal three other components of the ejaculate are produced. The prostate gland produces a small amount of alkaline fluid to counteract the acidity of the vagina and protect the sperm. The bulbourethral gland secretes a small amount of clear lubricating liquid (sometimes seen before ejaculation as “precum”) to help speed the ejaculate along the urethra. The largest component of the ejaculate, the milky semen, is produced in the seminal vesicles. This liquid is actually a fructose sugar based substance to nourish the sperm.
During sexual arousal, sperm and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these glands backing up behind valves in the ejaculatory ducts. When fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.
If there is no ejaculation or other emptying of these glands, all of the ejaculate is reabsorbed into the body. Again, there is no buildup of fluid except during arousal. Mere denial of sexual relief (without arousal) does not create a physical need to ejaculate or empty these glands. Nor is there any physical basis for saying that longer denial alone produces greater need or desire for ejaculation. All of these effects are psychological, and are powerfully contributed to by repeated states of arousal without relief.
The basis for orgasm control/denial is founded in part on the idea that while the male is interested in pursuing sexual release he will be more solicitous of the lady’s pleasure, and in general more amenable to various services for her. For some, an additional motive is that more time between his releases will make them more powerful and pleasurable. However, the truth is that these effects are predominantly psychological, created by repeated “teasings” or other arousal which engage his desires and build at an emotional level.
After an ejaculatory orgasm, complete with all of the other physical and emotional aspects, there is a physical refractory period (generally shorter in younger men, longer in older ones) during which the body does not respond to sexual arousal. Psychologically too, immediately after orgasm men are not often thinking about the next sexual release. Some have taken this fact and made a bit more of it than the data actually support. Consequently there is a great deal of advice centered around using “milkings” instead of full orgasm to keep him in that state of desiring sexual release, and being focused on the lady’s pleasures and desires.
Whether or not a couple wishes to employ total orgasm denial for the male is a personal one. The reasons for this choice are varied and depend on many factors of their particular relationship and individual psychology. However, if the primary reason is to avoid a period in which he is not interested in sexual release (and consequently less interested in serving her) then it is not necessary to completely avoid the full orgasm.
The physical refractory period is relatively short, and skillful use of teasings and other arousal can quickly re-engage the male. In fact, many of the websites advocating the use of chastity devices for the male cite (possibly questionable) statistics about the rate of male masturbation, which by itself should demonstrate that many males, on their own, quickly re-engage in the desire for the next sexual release.
As stated before, mere denial does not produce increased need or desire for sexual release unless there is an emotional/psychological element. So for the lady to obtain the desired benefits of orgasm control there must be fairly constant focus on the “carrot” of sexual release, usually best accomplished with regular teasing and arousal.
Even though the fluids created during arousal will be reabsorbed if not discharged; such repeated engorgements, and build up of pressure prior to what would be an ejaculation can cause some irritation and swelling in the prostate, a condition called prostatitis. This is likely the basis for the presumption that the fluids are constantly building if there is no release. In any event, orgasmic release or prostate massage or milking can temporarily reduce this effect. Remember that engorgement of the prostate is an effect of (not the cause of) increased sexual desire.
The prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble or golf ball. It can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can be felt as a rounded lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside the rectum. A better way to find it from the rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum (on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be the prostate. Just in back of (up from) the prostate is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom portion of the somewhat larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the fluid of the ejaculate is produced and accumulated. Underneath the seminal vesicles are the ampulla.
The seminal vesicles, ampulla and prostate can also be emptied by massage of these glands through the rectum. Rhythmically massaging the organs in an in-and-out motion with an anal dildo is one way, but perhaps a more reliable way is to simply use either the middle finger or the middle finger and index finger together (well lubricated), to apply a firm slow massage over the nodules of the glands inside the rectum. The massage will force the seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts.
Once ejaculate appears at the mouth of the penis, it will help to empty the urethra by running a finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing the ejaculate in front of it. See diagram below for motions from the outside of the gland toward the middle to cause the emptying.
Only a few drops of liquid will be expelled, unless the procedure is immediately preceded by significant sexual arousal, enough to cause the production of ejaculate to be stored in the seminal vesicles.
Despite personal stories relating volume to length of denial, a careful reading of these accounts and/or questioning of the participants always reveals that large amounts of fluid are only obtained when the procedure follows arousal. The length of arousal or number of “edgings” (getting very close to orgasm) most reliably predicts the amount of ejaculate extracted.
Light or gentle touch of the prostate through the rectum, or for that matter of the anus itself, is usually perceived as erotic and pleasurable. This has lead some to refer to the prostate as the male “G spot”. Sufficient pressure on the prostate and seminal vesicles to expel fluids is most often felt as discomfort, at least until the male eroticizes this contact. Individual responses, of course, do vary.
Prostate massage, with or without prior sexual arousal, does have the effect of relieving some of the swelling of prostatitis.
When this procedure is used as part of orgasm control games, a basic question needs to be answered: is it intended to be pleasurable for the male? If it is to be pleasurable, the possibilities range from a full orgasm aided and enhanced with prostate and penile stimulation, down to what is often called the “ruined orgasm” where stimulation is suddenly halted at the first sign of ejaculate, which usually means the resulting orgasm has less force. This is often considered psychologically less satisfying by the male. If penile stimulation is stopped for a brief time before the prostate massage begins, allowing arousal to drop back a bit, draining of the ejaculate will not trigger orgasm, even though a similar amount of ejaculate may be collected.
From the above it should now be clear that in orgasm control/denial play the physiological need for either orgasm or milkings is mostly caused by induced prostatitis from the repeated arousals without release. Since this depends entirely on the frequency and degree of arousal, as well as individual response that may be different for each man, no definitive schedule can be put forth. This physical “need” (the prostatitis) is not likely perceived directly as increased sexual desire. Though some men may be able to detect (or believe they do) symptoms of it, and eroticize those feelings which in turn, give rise to desire for sexual release.
Persistent difficulty in urinating, or painful urination, especially when it occurs days after a milking or release should be reason to consult a physician.
Even though there is no continuous build up of ejaculate causing increased interest in sexual release, it is important to remember that sexual arousal is at least as much a “mind game” as it is a matter of physiology. Such references during play may well enhance the arousal of the male. Our point is just don’t get carried away with taking them literally and making decisions about the form and character of play based on inaccurate informati